CC: I’m OUT and He’s Incharge



It’s wednesday today and it’s couple’s corner’s day!

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So I’m out and He’s incharge huh? Actually I am having a hard time doing that. Especially if I was just going to a party or something. I know he can handle the kids but sometimes I am worried. But this situation often happens during weekends but not at night. Weekend is my days of work. Weekend is my usual tripping schedule in real estate. I am out for few hours and after my work I am rushing home already to check my “mag-aama”. Good thing we we’re living with his parents kaya may kasama siya. He’s lucky coz he can still play “dota” in his computer or watch NBA. I’m worried about the kids messing up the room. Since husband is busy with his own stuff, and kids know that he’s not strict with “making kalat” of the toys they will bring down the toys and play with it without putting them back to their places.

I never experienced going out for a girls night out and leave the kids with him. I don’t why I am so guilty doing that. I am so guilty going out enjoying there while he’s at home taking care of my kids. In this case I feel like he’s so unfair when he is going out alone.

Oh well, I know that we can’t go out together all the time, I know sometimes that we have to give ourselves some ‘Me time” but I can’t do it. I always wanted to go with him and hang out with him. I always wanted to experience new things with him. But that’s not happening all the time and I have to learn that fact. (I’m actually starting to learn now.)

I have to learn and accept that sometimes “I am In and he is Out” and I have to teach myself that “I can be OUT while he is IN”.

Happy Couple’s Corner Everyone! =)


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8 thoughts on “CC: I’m OUT and He’s Incharge”

  1. si hubby ko naman saway ng saway sa anak ko pag nagkakalat pag naiiwan sila sa bahay kase alam nya sya ang papagalitan ko pag makalat ang bahay, lol! same here, can’t go out with friends sa bar on late hours. minsan 12 midnight akong umuuwi, drunk, pero dito lang ako galing sa kapitbahay namin.

  2. Parang kanta ni Sandara ba un…”You’re in and I’m Out”! hehehe

    Happy to hear that you always both do things or go out together…Wish we can do that too.. Happy CC!

  3. lam mo guilty rin ako pag gabi tapos aalis ako.. thats the reason why nagtatampo mga friends ko kc di ako mksama sa dinner 🙁 hirap kc to think of them pag ako nsa labas nag ienjoy hihih

    and just like u pag uwe ko rin sa bahay. naku puro kalat! normal na ata un hihih

  4. my hubby prefer to stay home than going out at kung lalabas man ay palagi akong kasama at ang mga bata. tama ka minsan nakaka guilty ring iwana sa ama ang mga bata habang ikaw ay nasa party. kaya ako lagi ko kasama mga anak ko.

  5. it’s normal to feel guilty kapag umaalis ka ng bahay at naiiwan ang mag aama mo, but there are times na you need to have a “Me” time eka mo nga. yun ung time na makapag recharge ka after taking care of the kids and cleaning the house and etc etc. otherwise baka ma burned out ka, and that’s not good. May kasama naman pala sila, so there’s no reason for you to feel guilty. But, I know kanya kanyang preference ang bawat ina, and you prefer to hang out with your husband. ako kasi minsan umaalis akong mag isa, nag da drive pa Walmart, or kahit saan, kasi kadalasan me bitbit akong tsikiting, ang hirap mag isip kapag maraming bata, wahhhh!

  6. Hala wala pa akong ka couple.. Hehehe.. Good thing that you can give time for yourself also. I think I will feel bored kung sa bahay lang ako. Happy GT!

  7. ako din, I feel guilty kaya wag nalang… hahaha!!! never pa ako nag happy go lucky ng mag-isa… di rin ako lumalabas ng gabi… either wag nalang or kasama ko nalang si batuts…

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